Tonight I took my 12 year old son to a book signing for one of his favorite writers, Rick Riordan (of Percy Jackson infamy). I'd never been to a traditional in-store book signing before. I've been lucky to be in situations at MFA residencies and smaller readings and writing conferences where I got to meet writers, actually talk to them, and have them sign a book during the midst of that. This was quite the different beast. A veritable assembly line. We were given a post-it with my son's name which was put on the title page of the book. When we were next in line, another person took the book, who then gave it to a woman at Riordan's side. Then the book was quickly passed to Riordan who read the name, and smiling, signed the book and happily made quick conversation with my son.
I don't particularly have anything against this model, I appreciate the reason for its existence. It was just a different experience for me. I was happy that Riordan was friendly and seemed very genuine. And I was really stoked that my son was still filled with excitement and wonder about meeting a writer whose work he loves.
But the greater part of the event was the drive to the bookstore, when my son started telling me about an assignment at school where they will be writing spooky stories. This led to him saying that he has a hard time starting stories, that the beginnings always feel awkward for him. What followed was a ten minute discussion about good ways to start stories. About action and dialogue. Right in my wheelhouse. If there's one thing I do well it's probably dialogue. And if there's one thing I've learned, that I got drilled into me during my MFA, it was how to stop bogging myself down in background or biographical information and get to scene work. How to incorporate my dialogue writing with my need for action.
Needless to say the greatest writerly moment I've had in a long time was this ten minute stretch, and my son saying, after me giving him advice on opening stories right in a scene or with dialogue, "Oh, that's cool. I'd never thought about doing that."